We just finished up a four week series about the Holy Spirit called, 'A Fire Inside'. We spent one week learning how to discern when God is speaking to us, and I'll post the cliff notes of those marks of God's voice below:
(Authority)
First, God’s speaking has an authoritative something about it. Notice how Samuel misperceived this as his Father, the highest official in Israel calling. God’s voice is authoritative. When someone in authority speaks you listen in a new way. Your friends talk and banter and speculate all day long but when your principal or father or president speaks directly to you there is a ring of authority to it. I sometimes think of God’s words spoken to me somewhat like getting a brand stamped in your brain. In Mathew 7:29 the crowds around Jesus knew there was something different about the way Jesus spoke. Here is how they described Jesus’ voice, ‘he taught as one who had authority, not as the (other) teachers of the law’. When God speaks it has authority to it.
(Clarity)
Second, God’s voice has clarity. Our thoughts tend to bounce around in our brains and meander this way and that way in a kind of fleeting manner. God’s voice doesn’t meander or ramble like our thought patterns. His voice is clear, it is distinct.
(Brevity)
Third, God’s voice is often brief. It is very rare that God ever speaks in paragraphs. Even in life the best communicators are those who are able to say a lot in only a limited amount of words. I have to speak for so long because I’m just not that good. But God is the master of mind, soul, body and language. When he speaks it is usually very brief, but only a few words from God seem to carry much more meaning than normal human beings can pack in. You know how when you really know someone you can just give them one little wink or facial gesture from across the room and they know exactly what you are thinking? Or how when you know someone really well you have little inside jokes where you can say one word and there is tons of meaning behind it? Well, God knows us inside and out and often he speaks in only a few words but these few words could not be described fully in any amount of words.
(Ex. “Let it Out”)
As an example, a few years ago I was at a wedding of a good friend of mine in Oklahoma. But I did not really know many of his friends or family. So, I am basically thrown into this social gathering surrounded by tons of people I don’t know. And then out of nowhere I am gripped by an awareness that God has something he wants to say to me. God has my attention. So learning from previous mistakes I immediately retreat from the crowd to the quietest place I can find, and as soon as I got into a quiet place and listened God says to me, ‘let it out’. And that was it. 3 words. ‘Let it out.’ But for me He filled these three words with worlds of profound meaning. I knew instantly that God was telling me that while He had grown me to a place where I had tons of passion and love and concern for god inside of me, I kept it bottled up inside of me. I never wanted to be the super spiritual weirdo who was always talking about God or whatever and because of this distaste for those types of people I very rarely let out what was true inside of me. At one point earlier in my life I was a hypocrite because I appeared on the outside better than I was on the inside, and now I had hit a point where I was a hypocrite because I had all of this good on the inside that I was covering up by my outward appearance. So God said, ‘let it out’. Very brief, but tons of meaning.
(Tone)
The fourth thing that helps me discern what is coming from God and what isn’t is the tone of His voice. What I mean is that His voice matches his character as revealed in the bible. The best way of course to learn about God’s character is by meditating on Scripture every day. You freshmen will have an incredible grasp on how to do this well by the end of this year in your small groups. But as a general note for all of us, over time I have learned that God never speaks out of character. So his voice never has a frantic quality about it, but a peaceful one. His voice is never hurried or worried but calm and steady. His voice does not sound sarcastic but is always constructive. When thoughts come into your mind that have a spirit or tone about them that doesn’t match God’s character you can bet it isn’t coming from God.
(Presence)
As a fifth quality about hearing from God to note; God’s presence often accompanies his speaking. His presence can sometimes be described as a ‘heightened alertness’ or an incredible ‘focus’ that goes beyond normal. It is like God grabs your face and commands your attention. Not harshly but that level of alertness. You cannot help but think of God and listen in these moments.
Do not expect this to always accompany god’s speaking but if it does you will not lack much for wondering if it is from God. However, if you sense a presence that feels different while accompanied from some thought that doesn’t match God’s tone or quality of voice then be aware. We do have spiritual enemies in this world that try to masquerade as angels of light, and this can be a sign you need to do a little spiritual warfare. But that is a lesson for another day isn’t itJ
Last word on His Presence is that it tends to leave you feeling more peaceful and joyful than you normally do. The presence of His spirit will match the fruits of the spirit listed in Galatians. Love, joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithful, Gentle, Self-Controlled.
(Unforgettable)
The 6th thing to pay attention to is the unforgettable quality of God’s voice. We come up with ideas that flitter around and are quickly forgotten, lost, become unclear. Specific revelation from God is unforgettable. The words are branded in your brain. This is why we must pay attention to recurring thoughts. When a thought comes back or we can’t forget it we should ask God, ‘Are you wanting me to really do this?’ ‘Is this from you?’
(Result)
Number seven is the Result. What is the result of this thought you just had. God’s speaking will not leave you feeling anxious, worried, hate-filled or ashamed. His speaking heals, brings peace, humility, and forgiveness to heart. You can gauge if it came from him by the result this ‘thought’ has on you. If you hear some word of accusation towards you that should always put you on guard since Satan is called the ‘accuser’. Don’t throw it out right away because if God is convicting you of something you don’t want to ignore that. God’s conviction always comes to you as helpful and constructive and motivates you to want to change. An accusing voice just wants you to feel ashamed and feel worthless. If the result of this thought is just feeling ashamed or worthless it is not from God. So pay attention to the result or effect it has on you.
(Content)
The last thing I’ll mention is Content. The actual content of what God will say to you will never contradict the nature of who God is as revealed in the bible. His words can go beyond biblical revelation, but they will not contradict the bible. This is why knowing the scripture through daily meditation is so important in learning to know God personally and hear his voice. The Content will always line up with what has been revealed in Scripture. Again, Sophomores should have a firm grasp on this by the end of the year in their small groups.